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Frederike Falke

Creative AI & Communication Agency at Falkina

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Aug 29 · linkedin

Arghh.. Shall I really post that? A video about myself? Isn't that a bit weird? 👀🤯

It's always this interesting question of what to post and what not. What to be better keeping behind closed doors and what not.

Especially last week I had several incidents behind my desk, I had written a wonderful post, but posting it felt cringy, it felt weird, it felt out of this world.

Yesterday I had a conversation with a friend about the mental stops and go's of posting. 🤔

Shall we do it or not? Will it be liked or not? Will it be braggingly weird or not? Will we feel comfortable or not? Will it just be cringy, seeing us on camera or not?

And I realized something. Something I realized last week too - When I have an idea of a post, in the moment it appears, I write it down, And I post it along, the thought is done, the creative work concluded, and I can move on.

When I - however - have that thought, write the post, and have that pause, the pause of all the questions above, the post simmers, and loses its power, and the time is gone.

What stays are missed opportunities, Weird feelings of shame, Moments of 'Why did I not just post it?'

Does it mean we should always post? Probably not, there is never black or white. But sometimes it may be nice, to simply trust your post, and press the button. 🔴

Wanna know about this video? Siam Hossain created it at his Immigrants meetup on Wednesday. 🤩

Sometimes it's just about writing. It's about trusting the process. And about having some fun along the way.

How do you go about posting? How do you handle the intricacies of our mental mind? 😃

Aug 28 · linkedin

To which event shall I go to? There are so many. How shall I choose? 👀

Do you know that? You had booked in an event, a second one and a third one. Invitations from friends and business partners. And they just add up and you wonder to which event to go to?

That happened to me yesterday. I wanted to go to a Community Builder Soiree at Fabrik to learn more about their space for hosting our own AI events. But then a friend invited me to his own meetup 'For Immigrants by Immigrants' and at lunch time I realized that I was also booked in for a meetup that did not show up on my calendar technically learning about Fine-Tuning LLMs and RAG. And 2 hours later, another friend invited me to a Tech CxO Meetup and later I was booked in for a birthday party. 😂 🤯

Well, I tried to come up with the perfect plan for all these meetups: ✍ 🧐
First, saying hi to the friend at the Immigrant meetup, then maybe the technical AI event, but hey the talks need deep dive sitting in, so this may not work, then let's skip that, say hi to some CxOs, as there may be potential clients, and then I can make a pitstop at the Soiree before heading to the birthday meetup!

Did my perfect plan work out? Well, of course not. 😅

It was way too much. And it missed an important component. Time to go deep. Time to connect. And time to immerse in the moment at hand.

I said hi to Siam Hossain at his Immigrants meetup, met some great people and wanted to stay. But my mind was set to be "on the go". it was not able to be fully there. It was focused on "the next (big) thing". 😂

I went to the CxO event next and it was great. I loved the people, I met some good friends and I realized - any more switch would not add anything good. It was time to stay. Time to connect. And time to immerse.

And I met some amazing people. Shereen Moussa, with whom I talked about AI events in town, Victoria (Vicka) Ter-Ovanesyan, who is helping immigrants land smoothly in NYC, Khurram Kalimi who's book Selldiers is a fantastic resource to improve your sales skills, Farhan with whom you for sure always have a great time, Nelson Marteleira, who is building an EdTech company on No-Code skills in Portugal and many more that made my evening. 😍

It takes time to connect. And time to listen in. Time to be fully there, time to be in the moment, and time to be with people around. The time to build genuine relationships. And the time to go deep and learn about the other person. Time to build connections that last. 😍

What are your experiences with too many events? How do you handle them? How do you make sure to build genuine relationships?

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Creative AI & Communication Agency at Falkina
Strategic Sales Team Leader at Miro

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New York City, New York, United States