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Jayson Gaignard
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I'm still waiting for the Police to show up - My truck was stolen last night.
Earlier this morning, I was writing at a coffee shop, reflecting on a recent realization that... on most days, I'm living my perfect day.
This is an aspiration that I described to myself in detail over a decade ago. Although I've known that I've been inching towards it over the years, I was not conscious of the fact that it's become my reality on most days.
An even more meaningful discovery is that in those moments where it doesn't feel like my reality, it's probably within my grasp, but I'm robbing myself of that feeling by putting unneeded pressure or unrealistic expectations on myself.
To be clear, there are plenty of opportunities to fill my calendar all day, every day. Not doing so means that I can pretty consistently leave money/opportunities on the table, which I have had to come to terms with.
Quite frankly, I am optimizing for something different at this stage in my life. Cultivating space and simplicity as a way of life for the creative process.
YES, I can build a team, scale to create more freedom, etc... I'm working on that, but also embracing Derek Siver's beautiful frame of Relax for the Same Result. (If you're not familiar with his post, I highly recommend you check it out) Lots of growth, awareness, boundaries, and decisions (large and small) have had to happen to get to this point.
We've probably all heard the saying "Remember when you wanted what you currently have"
It's true. Sometimes we need to pause and take inventory of our current reality. Small shifts compound over time - Which often leaves us feeling like things take forever, and then it's all of a sudden.
For clarity, I don't fool myself into believing that I won't oscillate into times dominated by unfavourable feelings. I can still get into really bad funks—which is to be expected. But for the time being, I'm going to sit and appreciate the space I'm in.
To bookend the story... After all these beautiful reflections over my morning coffee, I came back to an empty parking spot and a parking lot attendant telling me that my 2-month-old truck was most likely stolen overnight.
I wasn't bummed for a second. My brain immediately took inventory of what truly matters - My wife and daughter are both with me, and we have our health. Everything else is figureoutable. 🥰

