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Jeffrey Newman

President/CEO at Together Helping Others Inc, Nonprofit for the Homeless

Jeffrey Newman is a prominent figure known for his diverse professional background and as the Co-founder and CEO of a NYC-based 501c3 non-profit dedicated to helping the homeless.

With a foundation in mainstream journalism, Jeffrey made his mark in NYC, serving as a senior editor at ABCNews.com and TheStreet.com before transitioning to the financial sector focusing on the LGBT market.

He gained recognition for his innovative work at OUT.com, including the historic live streaming of a gay wedding that captivated over a million viewers, even inspiring a 'Will and Grace' episode.

Jeffrey's career also includes a significant role in restructuring Spafinder as well as running his consulting firm for over a decade.

Passionate about advocacy, Jeffrey has been a pioneer in the fight against HIV and AIDS, openly sharing his journey as an HIV-positive individual and supporting suicide prevention initiatives, LGBTQ+ rights, and the rights of asylum seekers and immigrants.

His commitment to social causes led to the founding of Together Helping Others Inc and Backpacks For the Street alongside his husband, making a difference in the lives of the homeless and marginalized communities.

Jeffrey's educational background includes Bachelor’s Degrees in Mass Communication/Media Studies and Political Science and Government from Florida International University.

Highlights

Jun 3 · linkedin

HAPPY 23rd HIV-versary to ME! Twenty-three years ago I was diagnosed with HIV, and I’m still here!

Today I’m thriving, healthier than ever, undetectable, and THRIVING with nearly 1,100 t-cells.

As tradition goes, I honor the day with a banana, since it was 8,402 days ago that I was going about my business, buying bananas at the grocery store when the doctor called to say I had tested positive.

A friend asked me recently when it was that I accepted my diagnosis. Truth is, I don't think it ever occurred to me not to accept.

I remember sitting on my building stoop for about 20 minutes looking up at this piercingly gorgeous blue sky or what was a beautiful spring day and thought I had two choices. I could curl up in a corner and wallow in self-pity, or I could get up, dust myself off and accept that this was my new normal. The latter is what I chose to do.

Life was going to go on and I was determined to go on with it.

It's how I have, always lived my life. It's how my parents raised me. I also owed it to myself, the people who loved me, the friends whose lives were cut short in those early years of HIV and AIDS to embrace this crazy thing.

Part of me always saw myself as invincible, before I got diagnosed. But part of me still sees myself as invincible, at least against the stigma, the ignorance and the shame.

I don't know why the universe saw fit to put me on this journey 23 years ago. It never occurred to me – not then, or at any time since – to ask, “why me?" All I thought was "why not me? HIV is not a discriminating virus nor a punishment or curse by the universe. I AM so much more than those three letters!

As my life's motto goes: defeat is not an option; It wasn't then. And it certainly isn't now.

So Happy HIV-versary. May we live a long, healthy life together!

Oct 16 · linkedin

DEAD MAN WALKING! 19 years ago I was rushed to the ER with less than 50 t-cells and given 12 hours to live. The doctors even called my parents and told them to fly up ASAP to say their goodbyes.

But I hate losing. So when I heard "going to die," all I thought was “challenge accepted!” Spoiler alert: I won!

Three weeks later when I was released from the hospital, I got home to discover that this guy, Jayson Conner, who I just started dating and had asked to watch my dog and cats while I lay at death's door, had moved himself into my apartment. (That would also be the story of how Jayson got off the streets from being homeless.)

It's also why in my contacts on my phone, Jayson is listed as "That Guy Who Never Left." ... It was one of the best things to happen to me. Jayson moving in, not the almost dying part.

Look, we all face adversity, some greater than others. In those moments, you have a choice: fight or give up. Face it head on or run as fast as you can. You might not win every battle. It might be a struggle to get over each hurdle the first, second, or even 10th time. I've faced: HIV. AIDS. 9/11. Addiction. Suicide. Near destitution. The death of disco and 80's fashion. And I'm still here.

If I'd quit every time I faced those obstacles, I'd have missed out on all the amazing things that have far out paced those challenges: an incredible spouse, two crazy-ass dogs, becoming a step dad to a now 20-something year old daughter, a loving group of family and friends and career path that I didn't foresee, but couldn't imagine not doing. Most of all I'd miss waking up every day on this side of the grass with gratitude for being alive.

The alternative to "challenge accepted" is defeat. And that's just not in my DNA or who I am. My life's mantra has always been: "Defeat is not an option." And I will honor that until I'm proven wrong.

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New York, New York, United States