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Magalie Pedrono
“It is truly useful since it's beautiful” — A. de Saint-Exupéry 🌺
Magalie Pedrono is an Immersive Experience Designer and Storyteller with expertise in emotional intelligence (EQ), diversity, and inclusion.1 Her work focuses on integrating emotional resilience with diversity and inclusion to foster a culture of belonging.
Magalie has a background that includes:
- 8 years of experience as an EQ researcher1
- Experience in one-on-one coaching1
- A philosophical and design-oriented approach to her work2
She is currently based in Porto, Portugal.2 Magalie's professional interests and skills encompass:
- Creating immersive experiences
- Storytelling
- Emotional intelligence research and application
- Diversity and inclusion initiatives
- Coaching for emotional resilience
Magalie appears to be open to professional opportunities, as her CreativeMornings profile indicates she is available for hire.2 She maintains an online presence through various platforms, including a personal website (modernmonk.me), a Tumblr blog (magovsky.tumblr.com), and a Twitter account.2
Highlights
WEEK 4 is #FRIENDSHIP And finally Friendship! Maybe that’s another one you didn’t see coming?
Friendships are the most abstract of all relationships, yet there are the perfect practice playground for learning how to create healthy unattached relationships. Indeed, no matter how much we adore our friends, there will always be less at stake, less expectations, and less pressure when it comes to how the relationship should look like, and what needs it should fulfil. We are friends because we enjoy each other’s presence, and often friendships develop without us realising that something is happening. That’s what makes them so special. Friendships are very organic by nature . We don’t force them, or apply any agenda on them. We just experience them and let them take us on a ride full of surprises as we discover one another and create a whole new world based on our shared interests. Even when we end up being dear friends for life, we are never really committing to a lifetime of togetherness in the same way we do with romantic partnerships. We may allow each other to drift apart for a bit and then savour reconnecting and catching up on these years and how they made us different from what we used to be, while still being deeply the same [...]. Friends often see you more than you can really see yourself, and during challenging times, they are your best ally to guide you with your best interest in mind, giving you the perspective you might be lacking. They do this effortlessly, without being threatened in any way because they want you to be your best Self. Because they chose to be with you for YOU. They don’t “need” you, or expect you to be any certain way.
There is indeed a big difference between relationships created around Choice VS those based on Needs and it affects the whole dynamic of the connection moving forward. When we are with people out of necessity, the necessity is what keeps us together for best or worst but soon enough, when the necessity is no longer there, the relationship also disappears. After 7+ years of working on Love and Relationship dynamics it became obvious that Friendship Love (See Love as Relation in the #11 words chart) is the ESSENTIAL FOUNDATION for any thriving and fulfilling relationship, be it romantic, professional and even familial - because blood isn’t always strong enough to foster such Love.
That’s why choosing your friends wisely is critical, because in the end, no matter if we are in a romantic partnership or not, we end up spending A LOT of time with our friends, and sooner or later their strengths become our strengths and so do their limitations. Love makes us or breaks us, same with friendships!
Show Me Your Friends And I'll Show You Your Future ~ Dan Pena
Whether we are conscious about it or not, we are deeply influenced by the people we spend most of our time with and overtime it adds up! Choose wisely my friend :)
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WEEK 3 is #ABUSE
Wait, what? Abuse? Why so much violence all of the sudden? Well, because Love can be violent at times I know, this is not pretty, and it’s probably the aspect of Love we are the least willing to look at.
I grew up in a dysfunctional family, and in my case, more often than not, Love didn’t feel good. From the start, Love hurt #alot even before I had a chance to feel how good Love could be. Sure, my Mum cared for me and for that I consider myself lucky (it wasn't the case for her), but some other family dynamics really made it hard for me to grow up emotionally healthy. Looking back, there was so much confusion about what Love and Family bonds were supposed to be. No wonder I ended up doing the work I do today.
There was a strong dissonance within my being between what I knew Love could be and what I was receiving on a daily basis. All the various treatments shared “in the name of Love” were highly disturbing; the unwanted attention, the constant critique as soon as I would do something that did not please them, my kindness being taken advantage of, and totally disregarded afterwards… and even the physical violence. Is this really what Love is? It can’t be! I knew from very early on that something wasn’t quite right, and as a result I was always on the lookout for positive models on the outside to reinforce my inner-knowing. Fast forward to today, something that I am absolutely sure of: LOVE (no matter how it feels) is the most powerful force there is, and surely the most important driver in everything we do - yes even more than Sex or Power (O.Wilde reference). Because both are actually rooted in Love, and our deep yearning for it. Those who grew up in healthier emotional environments are more equipped to navigate the yearning positively, when those who didn’t, often find themselves in a place in which they would do anything they can to soothe/escape the pain of an unloving or rather a “mis-loving” environment.
A LOVE that hurts is a LOVE that is #CORRUPTED The reason why Love isn’t simple is because we attach all kinds of things to it, our insecurities, our desires and expectations, even our fears. This corrupts and weakens the bond between people to the point they are totally disconnected from each other - no matter how close they are physically or intellectually (family expectations). And this is how relationships turn into abusive situations, when the other person is no longer considered as an individual with their own needs and desires but rather a mere resource to be used (see “Love as Consumption” in the #11words chart) to satisfy one’s own personal needs.
A Love that exists only to satisfy our own self-interest is a love that Takes, rather than Gives and even if...[Article truncated]
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