Suggestions
Michael Shawe, LCSW
Psychotherapist and Intimacy Coach
Michael Shawe, LCSW is a licensed clinical social worker and psychotherapist based in New York, NY.23 He offers therapy and life coaching services, specializing in helping professional adults navigate various life challenges.15
Professional Background
With over ten years of experience, Shawe has worked with a diverse clientele ranging from film directors to individuals experiencing homelessness.5 He is holistically trained in several clinical models, including:
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Trauma-Focused CBT (TFCBT)
- Motivational Interviewing (MI)4
Areas of Expertise
Shawe's therapeutic focus encompasses a wide range of issues, including:
- Depression and anxiety
- Anger management
- Commitment issues
- Hypersexuality and sexual compulsions
- Trauma and PTSD36
Approach to Therapy
Shawe is known for his intuitive, brilliant, focused, and caring approach to therapy.2 He views therapy as a life-changing opportunity and works with individuals and couples to help them unpack, repack, and grow as human beings.27 His goal is to help clients wake up every day feeling excited about their lives.1
Education and Professional Development
Michael Shawe received his education from Columbia University.4 He continues to develop his skills and knowledge to provide therapy that is relevant and effective for 21st-century professionals.1
Clients can book appointments with Michael Shawe through various online platforms, and he offers his services both in-person in New York and potentially through telehealth options.27
Highlights
We are always asking in life, what's safe? How do we assess?
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Ask: Will you meet me where I am?
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Will you be patient with me?
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Will you encourage me?
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Will you support me when I'm not at my strongest?
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Will you see my strengths and celebrate them?
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Can I reciprocate the same to you?
These are helpful questions to build trust.
Notice the last one is essential, if you're not reciprocating, you're not building trust, you're building co-dependence.
You're building instability.
Why vulnerability is so dangerous for men?
Men have been taught and trained our entire lives.
To see genuine vulnerability as the gateway to rejection and pain.
We are in a process of reclaiming our humanity and discovering the power and freedom that comes from vulnerability.
A man who is able to show up with curiosity and vulnerability likely has done some deep work.
a woman who can hold that vulnerability likely has also done some deep healing work.
When we find people who celebrate our willingness to take risks, we will have more freedom, more joy and more love.
