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Nicole Spence
Managing Director, Product & Sales Activation, EMEA at Google
Nicole Spence is a dynamic and well-rounded sales professional with over 20 years of digital experience. She holds a Masters in Media from New York University and a Bachelor of Science in English from the University of California, Berkeley. Nicole has a proven track record of driving growth through deep client relationships, consultative management, and charismatic team leadership. She thrives in collaborative work environments, prioritizing sound business practices and innovation.
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"Mop of glory."
That's what my daughter calls my hair.
For as long as I can remember, my hair has garnered too much attention, commentary, and self reflection.
The daughter of a Puerto Rican mother, and an Southern Italian-American father, my natural hair is dark black and wildly curly.
My Mom always straightened her naturally curly hair, and from an early age, I was encouraged to do the same. The messages were everywhere - media, society, public figures: straight hair was desirable, curly hair was not.
When I entered the workplace, the same held true: "You look so much more professional" I was told at Conde Nast, after spending $700 to chemically alter my curls for the first time.
As I progressed in my career, my authentic self was impossible to hide: passionate, bold, ambitious. I could, however, balance that energy with my appearance. And I did.
By the time Co-Vid hit, I had been chemically straightening my hair for over 20 years. Unable to access the hair salon, I was forced into reflection: "Wait, why have I been doing this?"
The "why" came pretty quickly: I didn't believe my curls were attractive AND they attracted too much unwanted attention.
I would be embarrassed to try and calculate the dollars spent, or salon chair hours logged, in pursuit of straight hair.
In 2021, I set a New Year's resolution to not straighten my hair for the year. It was a long year; repairing the damage done, coaxing my curls back to life, accepting myself.
It's important to note this was facilitated by quite a few things: diversity, equity and inclusion becoming workplace topics, reaching a level of seniority at Google where I felt safe, and understanding I was now a role model for others.
As of today, I have worn my natural curls every day for over 3 years. Not a week goes by that someone doesn't comment on my hair, but I don't mind the attention...now.
In fact, my current goal is for my hair to take up as much space as possible - to fully reflect the magnitude of my personal spirit and positive energy.
The other day my 15 year old son looked at me and said: "I can't believe you ever straightened your hair - this (pointing to my mop of glory) - makes so much more sense."
Here's to making sense.
- Please feel free to send to/tag someone who may need a little confidence sporting their own mop of glory.
#Google #Leadership #Motivation #DEI #NaturalHair #CurlyHair
I have been married for 16 years today.
Like many women, my husband is older than me.
According to research, most heterosexual couples have an average age difference of 2-3 years, with the man being older in 64% of cases. That often means (like it did with us) the man has a big head start in his career. When we met, my husband had already held numerous executive roles, while I was still working to get my foot on the corporate ladder.
1 dog, 3 kids, several years, and many juggling acts later, we made the decision that one of us needed to stay home with our family. You know how this story usually goes.
But in this case, my husband was the one.
It wasn’t an obvious, or easy decision. What it was: active Allyship. And it required humility, courage, and sacrifice.
My husband believed in my potential. Knew my passion. Foresaw my trajectory.
As it turns out, while my husband has been our primary caregiver - shuttling to sports, making doctors appointments, doing laundry, helping with homework, setting up playdates, and so much more - my career has skyrocketed. The advantage so many men have received, for so very long.
Today, I want to celebrate and recognize the transformative power of Allyship.
I want to tell every young woman that your life partner is THE most important Ally you will ever choose, so choose carefully, and with intention.
And most of all, I want to thank you, Chris Spence. Happy anniversary. 🙏🏽 ❤️
#Google #Leadership #Allyship #Motivation
