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Rajesh Setty
19x Author, Teacher & Creator | Co-founder of Audvisor.com | Mentor to Game-changers | Amateur Go Player
Rajesh Setty is a versatile entrepreneur, author, speaker, and educator with a passion for bringing innovative ideas to life for personal and professional growth.
Since 2000, Rajesh has been involved in founding numerous technology and publishing companies, experiencing both successes and failures in the startup landscape.
Rajesh is the co-founder of Audvisor, a mobile audio streaming app hosting micro-podcasts from over 125 experts, covering a wide array of personal and professional development topics.
With an extensive writing background, Rajesh has authored and published 18 books, covering genres like mysteries, poems, mathematics, business, and cognitive thinking.
He is a prolific blogger with nearly 2,000 posts and has contributed to various publications such as Huffington Post, VentureBeat, and Salesforce.com.
Rajesh has created a unique concept called Napkinsights, offering insights that can fit on a paper napkin, as well as designed thank you cards and playing card decks with mini sagas.
An experienced educator, Rajesh has taught over 1,400 first-time entrepreneurs on the nuances of idea implementation and has spoken at various international events and conferences.
Rajesh Setty holds a Bachelor of Engineering in Electronics & Communication from the University of Mysore and has been associated with several organizations in leadership roles like Thoughtful Cards, MentorCloud, and WittyParrot, among others.
In a lighthearted endeavor, Rajesh ventured into the world of 'Sit Down Comedy,' creating comedic YouTube shows that, though not for everyone's taste, showcase his willingness to step out of his comfort zone.
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When things are going well, it’s easy to say, "It's all me."
But when things fall apart, the first thought is, "Why me?"
Shift the narrative—own it all. The good, the bad, and everything in between.
If you’re only taking credit when it’s good and questioning life when it’s not, you’re stuck in a loop that needs breaking.
Consider all the moments in your life that initially felt negative. Looking back, many of those moments likely sparked meaningful, positive changes. What seemed like setbacks were often the catalysts for growth, new directions, or unexpected blessings.
Prasada Buddhi is a concept rooted in Indian wisdom, particularly in Hindu philosophy, which emphasizes accepting outcomes with a mindset of grace, equanimity, and gratitude. The term "prasada" typically refers to the blessed food offered in temples, distributed to devotees as a symbol of divine grace. Extending this idea, Prasada Buddhi means accepting all of life’s outcomes—whether success or failure, joy or sorrow—as forms of prasada, or divine blessing.
Amitabh Bachchan, the legendary Indian actor, often shares advice from his father, Harivansh Rai Bachchan, that aligns with this philosophy. He recalls, "I keep quoting my father all the time, and I’m sure I’ve done it a million times. One of the first things he taught me was, ‘Mann ka ho toh accha, na ho toh zyada accha.’ It means, ‘If things happen according to your wish, it’s good. If they don’t, it’s even better.’ At first, I couldn’t understand this. When I asked him, he explained, ‘If things aren’t happening according to your wish, they are happening according to the wish of a divine force. And that force will never think ill of you. So, you have to respect that as being even better.’ This perspective has guided me: if things work out, great. If they don’t, I trust there’s a higher purpose, perhaps urging me to wait for a better opportunity.”
Ultimately, it all circles back to the timeless wisdom of the Bhagavad Gita: “Attach yourself to the effort, detach yourself from the outcome.” Embrace the journey with commitment, and let go of the need to control the results.
H/T: Sunil Kanderi and Pranil Kanderi for sparking the conversation on this topic.
PS: For a collection of my past articles, kindly see: https://lnkd.in/giWkfCne
Closing the 'physical distance' builds connections, but closing the 'heart distance' truly strengthens bonds.
Consider these popular quotes:
- "Familiarity breeds contempt."
- "Absence makes the heart grow fonder."
- "The more we see each other, the more we like each other."
- "Closeness makes the bond grow stronger."
These quotes, while insightful, can seem contradictory. Without context, they might leave you wondering: what’s the best approach to building deep bonds? Is it about being physically close, maintaining some distance, or striking a balance between the two?
The truth is, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. But one crucial factor that transcends “physical distance” is “heart distance.”
So, what does it mean to shrink the “heart distance” between two people? “Heart distance” may be a metaphor, but it captures the essence of emotional closeness. Here are some signs that the “heart distance” between two people is small:
- Both seek to give more than they get from each other.
- They speak positively about each other, even when the other isn’t around.
- They care for each other as deeply as they care for themselves.
- They reach out when they sense the other needs support, not just when they need something.
- They actively work towards a shared, positive future.
- They rarely feel bored in each other’s company.
- They feel safe being vulnerable with each other.
These are powerful indicators of a close “heart distance.” When this emotional closeness exists, closing the “physical distance” becomes a bonus rather than a necessity.
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