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Alvin Lim
International Recruiter (APAC & EMEA) @ Liftoff Mobile
Alvin Lim is an International Recruiter for the Asia-Pacific (APAC) and Europe, the Middle East, and Africa (EMEA) regions at Liftoff Mobile. His role involves sourcing and recruiting talent across these regions to support the company's growth in mobile marketing and app development. Liftoff Mobile is known for its global community of app marketers and monetization experts.
In addition to his professional responsibilities, Alvin Lim is active on LinkedIn, where he shares insights related to mindful living and personal development. His LinkedIn profile indicates that he is also a creator and teacher of "The Slow Lane," a concept focused on promoting a balanced lifestyle. He emphasizes the importance of regaining freedom from burnout and encourages others to pursue a fulfilling life outside traditional work structures.123
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It’s very important to have a safe space.
One within yourself or within a tight group of people such as your mentor or direct family. Whom your heart can truly trust to be seen and heard, not judged.
That you only share your darkest and deepest secrets and desires. That you only share your thoughts and pains with.
Because more often than not, the people you thought were interested in your worries, they are not invested enough to hear you.
And when you realise that, the hurt you will feel is going to double. Because your expectations aren’t aligned.
And that’s because you didn’t create a safe enough space in you such that when people don’t have the capacity to hold it for you, you can do that for yourself. …
When you can fully be capable of acknowledging you, seeing you, resolving your own pains, you stop being dependent on others to do that for you.
That’s radical self growth rooted in being self responsible and sufficient.
Because my brain loves giving me surprises, and my adhd brain likes to trip me up it does the weirdest and unthinkable to me.
I may be sipping my coffee looking at the morning sky and my brain tells me, out of nowhere: “nobody likes you.”
It does this very often.
“You are not good enough.”
“You really think that would work?”
“Your words mean nothing.”
“You will fail.”
“It’s not working.”
I use to trip up.
But now I don’t. This is what I do whenever my brain plays this stuff on me.
“Hmm, this is interesting. My brain is telling me nobody likes me. Okay. Move on.”
And I allow that thought to be there. I don’t even try to change it.
I watch it. And I have compassion for it.
That’s all.
And this is everything I teach my clients. Yes.
No complicated formulas. Very simple stuff. And I do this in micro moments throughout the day.
That’s all.
