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Frank J. Udvarhely III
My purpose is to help us live, work and play in a prosperous way! | District Representative - Board of Supervisors
Frank J. Udvarhely III serves as a District Representative for the Board of Supervisors in Placer County, California. Originally from New Jersey, he later moved to Northern California, where he has become an influential figure in his community. His professional journey emphasizes personal growth and community engagement, as he actively participates in various initiatives aimed at improving local services and support systems.
On his LinkedIn profile, he shares insights about his experiences and beliefs, often focusing on leadership and the importance of mental health. He has expressed intentions to establish an endowment for mental health coaches through his organization, Intelligent Choice Training LLC, highlighting his commitment to mental health advocacy and community support.1
Highlights
There's so much beauty in this world, so why are some folks so petty?
I've always said If I'm not happy, why be there. So it confuses me to all hell when I hear people excessively complain about what they are doing or who they are around. Nobody else choose for you, and if they did that's abuse...
Sadly though ego driven comments are for the most part projections of the minds state. If a person has to nitpick strangers or worse loved ones, then their issue is rooted in self-worth, esteem and acceptance of who they are and not the fault of an external source. Remember whomever smelt it, delt it...
So what do you do when experiencing toxic behavior? Do you point it out? I used to, but now I just get curious of how I'm inviting it. To take it personally, to show or prove their perception is undignified only wastes my time and gets me grief for trying to help.
In my travels and studies I've come to realize so many live at the effect of Lack. Lack of direction, lack of self awareness or emotional intelligence, lack of purpose or principle, lack of knowing their shit infact does stink.
Life is hard and people like to find their tribes to quell vulnerabilities. Issue is people who resonate with others' toxic traits aren't truly bound by love and morals. Soon as person A is out of the room their so-called crew cuts them up just the same as an enemy would.
What does this serve? Narcissism is in my opinion a dis-ease just as AdHd, a physiological response to an environmental issue caused by dis-regulated neurology.
No surprise since our diets are mostly bioengineered, media is poison and the lowest bidder or biggest promise is coming to save us.
The way people cope with life is either constructive or destructive. Stop the pain or heal the problem... Issue is quick fixes are fast cheap and easy so why find the root when you can just mask the symptoms.
I have faith good will prevail over evil because evil as we've been living with, isn't sustainable for anyone anymore. And for those who think what we have is working, how's that working out for all? More people need to ask themselves "Am I part of the problem or the solution?"
Everything happens for a reason, it truly does that's not just a platitude. When you live At Cause of what you experience, even the toxic people have purpose. Like a cut that bleeds and forms a scab, experience builds character and only when we listen and learn that character becomes something good.
I guess what I am saying is, there are two sides for a reason. Light has darkness, summer has winter and kindness conjects the selfishly motivated folks. Which side are you on?
If you can't or haven't taken a long look in a mirror and answered honestly: What are my Thoughts, my Beliefs and my Emotions about life; then don't expect people who value their time to give you much attention in this next survival of the fittest phase of life.
We are all doing the best we can with the resources we have. I love you. ❤️
As we navigate life, remember there is a world of biological and spiritual processeses running in the background.
How are you honoring your #mentalhealth #physicalhealth #spiritualhealth ?
