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Lan Phan
I create communities.
I’m a driven sales and award-winning marketing leader with over twenty years building businesses and transforming the culture and DNA of companies. I have an affinity and strong understanding of digital marketing and marketing operations. As an industry insider, I have a strong network of contacts at Fortune 500 companies, crossing all industries from technology, retail, QSR, auto, CPG, and financial services. I’ve worked on both agency and client sides, not-for-profits and am fortunate enough to have contributed to the success of several leading global brands.
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You Are Not Your Work
Throughout my life, I relentlessly pursued empty titles, promotions, and commendations. I would scour job listings and opportunities based on these superficial markers and try to mold my life around my work. Unfortunately, after enduring twelve-hour workdays, there wasn't much "left" when I finally got home.
But today, my perspective has shifted. I've reordered my priorities to focus on what truly matters to me:
My family (including the friends who have become my chosen family).
Faith (nurturing my relationship with God).
Helping people (dedicating myself to serving others).
Freedom (taking charge of my destiny by starting my own business).
Gone are the days of chasing after workplace accolades. Instead, I've honed in on what brings me genuine happiness and fulfillment. My core values now serve as my guiding principles, shaping the very foundation of my business.
For instance, I used to spend a staggering 80% of my time traveling in my previous roles. When I constructed my own business, I deliberately designed a structure that allowed me to reduce travel by taking on virtual clients. Even when I do travel for speaking engagements, I often bring along my husband and daughter to ensure that I'm not sacrificing precious family time.
Moreover, as I built my company, I envisioned a business that could assist those who couldn't afford my services. This led me to launch a YouTube channel, offering free content to help a wider audience. My paid corporate training and key note speaking fees help fund my other non-paid services.
And when times get rough, which it often does, I repeat my mantra: In the relentless pursuit of earning a living, never forget to build a life worth living.
Love, Lan Phan community of SEVEN
If you like this posts, you’ll love my book Do This Daily: Secrets to Finding Success, Happiness, and Purpose in Work and Life: https://lnkd.in/ehxiRfA9
The word “NO” has always been a complete sentence.
No need to explain. No need to make up a story or feel guilty for days after.
This message is for all the people pleasers out there.
If you’re feeling burnt out, exhausted or you’re juggling too many balls, you need to learn to say, “No!”
As a recovering people pleaser I know this can be hard.
But remember, there is only so much time in the day. And there are only so many days in our year. And accordingly, so many years in our lives.
When we learn to say no we are saying yes to the things that matter.
For me, that’s my family and friends.
I don’t reply to every email sent to me, I don’t say yes to every project, I don’t take every request for a phone call because I realize that my time is limited.
I once felt guilty for saying no but now I just think of my daughter: That time would have been robbed from her.
Let me repeat this again, saying no is saying yes to what matters to you.
I also want to address the folks who feel they don’t have the luxury of saying no because they can’t financially or they don’t have the autonomy.
One day, things will change. I’ve been in your shoes. Say yes till you can say no, if you can, find the things you CAN eliminate in your life. When I was younger that was getting rid of the takers in my life, bad habits, and leaving toxic work situations.
Learning to say no to the things that no longer serve you makes room for the good to flow in.
And for those who long to be of service to others, remember that there is a fundamental difference between service to others and servitude. Know the difference.
Can I get an Amen?
Love, Lan Phan community of SEVEN
If you like this posts, you’ll love my book Do This Daily: Secrets to Finding Success, Happiness, and Purpose in Work and Life: https://lnkd.in/ehxiRfA9
