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Sabrina Lakhani

Behavioral Scientist | Attachment & Trust

Sabrina Lakhani is a behavioral scientist specializing in attachment and trust.14 She holds a Bachelor of Science from Babson College and an MBA from INSEAD.1 Lakhani has diverse professional roles, including:

  1. Consumer Insights leader at Frontier Communications, where she develops segment-specific strategies and improves customer experience.13
  2. Co-Founder of Patterns to Presence, coaching clients on self-trust and relationship transformation.1
  3. Founder of Behavioral Hear Sight, guiding corporate clients in developing trust with stakeholders.1

Lakhani has lived in 8 countries, speaks 3+ languages, and is known for her expertise in applying attachment science to behavioral science.1 She has presented about attachment styles at TMRE (The Market Research Event)2 and is recognized as a speaker for the event.3 Lakhani is also a founding partner of For The Culture Consulting, LLC, an equity and culture shift firm.5

Highlights

May 27 · linkedin

Why do people pleasers develop a victim mindset? 🤔

At the core, it boils down to a lack of self-trust. It's a dual struggle: seeking approval as a people pleaser and then shifting blame in victim mode. Both tendencies remain unconscious until we awaken. ☀️

The key to breaking free from this cycle is assuming 💯% responsibility for your present circumstances.

For me, this was challenging, as I hadn't witnessed anyone in my family taking this path. Surrounded by tales of victimhood:

  • my grandmother lamented raising children solo after my grandfather's premature passing
  • my mom shared the hardships of marrying young and parenting early
  • my dad expressed feeling trapped, toiling endlessly to support us

Amidst this narrative of victimhood, I chose a different route. 💥

I embarked on my healing journey, reshaping how I perceive my family's experiences.

If you're a parent, consider sharing not just the struggles but also the moments of joy, faith, and love that sustained you.

This serves a dual purpose: instilling in your children the strength to overcome challenges and reinforcing a secure internal foundation, reducing the inclination towards victimhood.

By breaking these generational patterns, we pave the way for intergenerational healing. ❤️‍🩹

If you’re looking to start your inner healing, check out it www.PatternstoPresence.com

It’s our 4 week holistic therapy program that helps you become securely attached.

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Why do people pleasers develop a victim mindset? 🤔 

At the core, it boils down to a lack of self-t

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Greater Seattle Area