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Sabrina Lakhani
Behavioral Scientist | Attachment & Trust
Sabrina Lakhani is a behavioral scientist specializing in attachment and trust.14 She holds a Bachelor of Science from Babson College and an MBA from INSEAD.1 Lakhani has diverse professional roles, including:
- Consumer Insights leader at Frontier Communications, where she develops segment-specific strategies and improves customer experience.13
- Co-Founder of Patterns to Presence, coaching clients on self-trust and relationship transformation.1
- Founder of Behavioral Hear Sight, guiding corporate clients in developing trust with stakeholders.1
Lakhani has lived in 8 countries, speaks 3+ languages, and is known for her expertise in applying attachment science to behavioral science.1 She has presented about attachment styles at TMRE (The Market Research Event)2 and is recognized as a speaker for the event.3 Lakhani is also a founding partner of For The Culture Consulting, LLC, an equity and culture shift firm.5
Highlights
Why do people pleasers develop a victim mindset? 🤔
At the core, it boils down to a lack of self-trust. It's a dual struggle: seeking approval as a people pleaser and then shifting blame in victim mode. Both tendencies remain unconscious until we awaken. ☀️
The key to breaking free from this cycle is assuming 💯% responsibility for your present circumstances.
For me, this was challenging, as I hadn't witnessed anyone in my family taking this path. Surrounded by tales of victimhood:
- my grandmother lamented raising children solo after my grandfather's premature passing
- my mom shared the hardships of marrying young and parenting early
- my dad expressed feeling trapped, toiling endlessly to support us
Amidst this narrative of victimhood, I chose a different route. 💥
I embarked on my healing journey, reshaping how I perceive my family's experiences.
If you're a parent, consider sharing not just the struggles but also the moments of joy, faith, and love that sustained you.
This serves a dual purpose: instilling in your children the strength to overcome challenges and reinforcing a secure internal foundation, reducing the inclination towards victimhood.
By breaking these generational patterns, we pave the way for intergenerational healing. ❤️🩹
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It’s our 4 week holistic therapy program that helps you become securely attached.
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