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Belinda Ju
Executive Coach, Founder, and Creative Professional
Belinda Ju, Executive Coach
Belinda Ju is an executive coach who works with founders scaling into CEOs and executives and leaders at high-growth and high-performance tech companies.1 She has spoken at panels on women entrepreneurs, such as one at Fordham University in 2017.2
Belinda Ju's LinkedIn username is be1inda.1 However, there is no clear indication that she is currently an Executive Advisor & Coach at Parachute Health based on the provided search results.
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"...And then everything changed."
That was the theme of the Stanford Class of 2010's Class Panel that I had the honor to speak at a year ago alongside three of my peers for our 10th Reunion (technically, 11th — thanks, pandemic).
I have a habit of going to Stanford every year for Reunion, even if it's not my year. I'm not there this weekend, so this is my homage, my hello.
All four of us panelists had undergone tremendous changes since graduating: career pivots, divorce, motherhood. It was humbling to be asked such wise questions, and to receive the wise answers of my fellow panelists.
In my reflections, I challenged the notion of “…and then everything changed.” 2018 was a turning point in my life when everything seemed to happen all at once, but all the ripples and changes and shifts had been percolating below the surface for years — I had just failed to be aware, or give them the permission to surface.
As a culture, we are so much more comfortable thinking about change as discrete rather than continuous. We want to have hard edges, to have clear kickoffs, to be done with things. “…and then everything changed” implies a certain suddenness to that change. And although sometimes, we experience a sudden change that demarcates one’s life into a Before and After, more often, the change is a gradual unfolding before we realize it in all its immensity.
To you, to the moderators Midori Uehara and Thomas Igeme, and to my fellow panelists Mohammad Mehdi Ali, Andrea Taylor Lindsay, and Conal Sathi: I wonder how we might reflect on the theme now, one year later. How have we changed since a year ago?
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"How do you begin to learn about what you like and want?" "How do you navigate transitions?" "How might you nourish the creative spark?"
Last Friday, I got to mentor some Stanford seniors, and I was struck by how wise and evergreen their questions were — that their questions resonate no matter the stage of career or life.
I'm also reminded of where I was then in my life. At the start of my senior year, I was studying abroad at Oxford, rowing on the Thames, and intensively studying both development economics and neoclassical architecture — all for an interdisciplinary major called "Human Biology." All of that might feel like a far cry from what I am and do now but it's not. Everything matters, nothing is wasted. Not one of us on the panel took a linear path (not even the doctors!), and that seemed to be a comfort to the students.
May we all continue to ask the questions with curiosity and openness. May we all know that it is when we stop asking the questions that we stop living.
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